Parents should find the love language of children and teenagers in the family

Mehrdad Houshmand said in a conversation with the reporter of Mehr News Agency: Finding the children's love language by parents is one of the most important and effective ways to communicate and connect with children and provide for their emotional and psychological needs. Parents who know and understand their love language can better connect with them and meet their emotional needs and develop their children's mental and emotional health.

He also said: Every child and teenager has their own love language and they receive their love and affection with that language, so parents should try to identify this language of love and affection of their children so that they can better interact with them in a healthy and effective way. have Many parents love their children, but many of them do not know how to show their love and affection to their children.

Houshman said: The love language of children and teenagers is different from each other. Every child and teenager has a special love language. Children and teenagers each receive their love and affection in a way, either with one or with several. Therefore, parents should find these communication and emotional ways with their children and communicate with them according to their age, developmental and emotional characteristics and express their love and affection to them.

This family education teacher stated: The main love languages ​​of children are: physical caressing and physical touch of children, using words of affirmation and their verbal approval, giving gifts and material rewards to children, providing services to children in different ways and devoting time to them. with quality to children and useful and valuable times with them. Parents need to find these main love languages ​​of their children and teenagers. This knowledge helps them to have a better and healthier relationship with their children and thereby help improve their lives and mental health.

Houshmand added: Some children feel their love and affection through physical caresses, physical touch of affection mixedThey receive hugs and kisses from their parents. Social psychologists tell us that we all need to be cuddled and loved. Therefore, parents should try to provide this important and basic need of their children in a good way. Some children also have this need and feel Z Through words and words of affirmation and love mixed receive, so parents should try to use loving words mixed To the children like I love you very much, you are great and… express this love and affection to the children.

He said: Some children and teenagers love to receive gifts and material rewards from their parents. Parents should try to show this love and affection to their children by giving them gifts, however small, and material rewards. Some children also like their parents to spend more time with them.

He pointed out: Spending useful time with children and dedicating useful and quality time to them is one of the important points in providing children's love language.

This university professor added: Some children also receive their love language through serving their parents in different ways. For example, parents can provide this love language to their children by helping them to do chores or homework, prepare food, and help them write and prepare something.

He added: it is necessary for parents, educators and teachers to find these main love languages ​​of children and teenagers and use them according to the developmental and psychological characteristics of children in order to have healthy and favorable relationships with their children and to improve the quality Help them live.