Amir al -Mu'minin (AS) advice for an unnecessary apology

Hojjatoleslam Ruhollah Jamshidi in a conversation with Mehr reporter addressing another wisdom by Nahj al -Balagha Amir al -Momenin (As) On the subject of resistance to the themes of wisdom, he said: “They said” they said “Al -Isataghnah That Al -Azar, Az Man Al -Saddqi It means that it is better not to apologize than to apologize.
He said that one must always strengthen the spirit of dignity and greatness: Imam Ali (As) In this wisdom they insist that one does not have to apologize if he does not have to do anything More dignified It is a honest and true excuse for his work.
Jamshidi said: So one has to plan in a way that has to apologize and apologize, even if it is due to the real excuse.
The lecturer of the Chaharmahal & Bakhtiari seminary stated: How many people who do in vain excuses and excuses to justify the shortcomings and shortcomings in the work that these human beings certainly apologize and humiliate themselves.
Jamshidi to the doctrine of this wisdom of Nahj al -Balagha Amir al -Mu'minin (As) “They insist that the smart believer lives instead of apologizing so as not to make a mistake and not to apologize,” he said.
He cited an example: Suppose you are at 4 o'clock with a friend who is 4 hours away and so you move at eight o'clock to get on time, but on the way, your car will be settled and you delay for a few minutes. You were. You apologize to your friend that he is also honest and justified as your excuse.
But you, according to Amir al -Mu'minin's advice, continuedAs) In this wisdom you had to set up your program so that you would go a few minutes earlier so that if you have a problem with you, you can fix it and be able to reach at 9pm. Therefore, they recommend that humans do not have to apologize to others even because of a correct and justified excuse; Naturally, the excuse is fabricated and unacceptable.
“This recommendation and emphasis of the Prophet should also be one of the manifestations of the spirit of resistance and greatness in human existence. .
(tagstotranslate) Nahj al -Balagha
Source:mehrnews